Marriage as growth

Marriage is not about two people coming together and loving each other just the way they are. Do you know why? It is because people are always changing. Yes, even if they wait until they are 45 years old to get married. Dating is about liking someone just the way he is today; if you don't like him the way he is tomorrow, you can date somebody else. Marriage is about growing together. Growing together is about helping each other to become better people, to make fewer mistakes and wiser decisions.